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Little children, let us not love in word or talk but in deed and in truth.
1 John 3:18
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There are so many stories about Abraham Lincoln that it’s hard to tell what’s truth and what’s fiction. But one story that seems to bear truth is one retold by Joanna Lane, the wife of Senator Henry Lane of Kansas.
Senator Lane had been a military commander and a good friend of General Lew Wallace. You may recognize that name. Later in life, Wallace became a novelist and was best known for a little book called Ben-Hur. But I digress. The two were close enough that Wallace had even named his only son Henry Lane Wallace. During the Civil War, Wallace was at one point the youngest major general in the Union Army, and he commanded the 3rd Division of the Army of the Tennessee under Ulysses S. Grant. Wallace and his brigades were involved in the Battle of Shiloh, which was, at that point, the deadliest battle of the Civil War. Nearly 24,000 soldiers were killed, wounded, captured or missing — including a general named Wallace.
Hearing the news, Senator Lane rushed to find out more from Secretary of War Edwin Stanton. While there, he encountered President Lincoln, who was also there to learn about the general’s fate. The truth, they learned, was that it was a different General Wallace — W.H.L. Wallace of Illinois — who had been mortally wounded in the battle. Relieved, Senator Lane stated, “I’m so thankful it wasn’t our Wallace.”
“Yes,” the president replied, “but it was somebody’s Wallace.”
So often, we can unintentionally reveal our selfishness when we lose sight of how other people are affected by the trials of this life. We rejoice when we are spared from destruction by the same storm that brings devastation to someone else. It’s not wrong to be grateful for our survival, but we must have enough love to show compassion for others who aren’t as fortunate. The love we have in Christ must be stronger than the love of the world. If it’s not, of what value is our Christian faith?
The Bible commands us to love so many times and in so many ways that it’s impossible to escape the importance of expressing love to others. In John 13:34, Jesus told His disciples to love each other as He had loved them. In today’s scripture, we are told that true love is shown in laying our lives down for others. In Luke 6:35, Jesus admonished His followers to not just love their friends, but to love those who opposed them. And, of course, there’s the famous passage of 1 Corinthians 13, which tells us that pure love is completely unselfish.
The bottom line, clearly, is that we’re called to love, and to love broadly. Our love should extend beyond the four walls of the world with which we’re comfortable and reach those we don’t know and even those who might be unfriendly to us. In every situation, our love should compel us to have compassion on those who need it most. Somebody’s “Wallace” needs love today. Will you give it?
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Reflection copyright © 2026 Doug DeBolt and Charles Fulton
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