A Life in Layers: Who I Am, One Piece at a Time

The question is, “How would you describe yourself to someone?” It’s a big one—with more than a few layers.

I believe the most important things about us are the roles we play in the lives of others. First and foremost, I’m a man of faith, striving each day to become more like Jesus. That foundation shapes everything else in my life, and it’s a joy to serve on our church’s worship team whenever I can.

From there, I’m a husband—blessed beyond measure to walk through life with my love, Daryl. I’m a father to my incredible daughter, Lizzi. And lately, I’ve taken on my favorite role yet: “Papi” to my grandson, Sully. I’m also a loyal friend—the kind who shows up, stays in touch, and sticks around.

Professionally, I’m a teacher. But at my core, I’m a writer. It’s why I enjoy putting these thoughts down each week—because words help me process, reflect, and connect.

Then there’s the flavor—the little things that give life its rhythm. I’m an eclectic sports fan, cheering for the Florida Gators, Dallas Cowboys, and a very specific trio from Philly: the Phillies, Sixers, and Flyers. I’m a music lover through and through—especially classic rock, Yacht Rock, and my all-time favorite band, Toto, who I’ve been lucky enough to see live four times. And when the house gets quiet, I’m a bourbon enthusiast who appreciates a good “Kentucky hug,” especially from Old Forester.

So, how would I describe myself? A man grounded in faith, anchored in family, loyal to his friends, and deeply in love with good stories, good music, and a well-aged pour. It’s a full life—and I’m grateful for every part of it.

About Douglas Blaine

Capnpen is a writer who was a newspaper and magazine journalist in a previous life. A college journalism major, he now works as an English teacher, but gets his writing fix by blogging about a variety of topics, including politics, religion, movies and television. When he's not working or blogging, Capnpen spends time with his family, plays a little golf (badly) and loves to learn about virtually anything.

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