Ignore the Peanut Gallery

Daily writing prompt
What advice would you give to your teenage self?

If I could sit across the table from my teenage self, I wouldn’t start with a lecture. I’d start with a question: Who exactly are you trying to impress?

Because if I’m honest, I spent a good chunk of my teenage years living for an audience that wasn’t even paying attention.

I worried constantly about what other people thought. I filtered decisions—especially dating decisions—through the imaginary court of public opinion. If I had a dollar for every night I stayed home instead of going out with a perfectly kind, funny, interesting “unpopular” girl, I could probably fund a modest Hawaiian getaway. Not first class. But window seats, at least.

I can think of a dozen girls who would have been fun to date. A couple who, in hindsight, probably should have been actual girlfriends. Instead, I let hallway commentary and locker-room wisdom guide my choices.

And what was that wisdom based on?

Complexion.
Height.
Weight.
Whether she played the “right” sport.

I once liked a girl who was a competitive swimmer. Strong. Disciplined. Focused. My friends convinced me that dating someone physically stronger than me was somehow a threat to my masculinity. As if the relationship was going to devolve into arm-wrestling matches at lunch.

The truth? Most of the guys I was trying to impress didn’t have girlfriends either. We were all pretending to be experts in a class none of us had passed.

Looking back, I can’t even identify what I was so afraid of. A raised eyebrow? A sarcastic comment? The dreaded phrase, “You’re dating her?”

Here’s what I’d tell that kid now:

Most opinions are background noise. They’re data points, not verdicts. Sure, if someone says, “That girl just got out of prison,” you might want to do some due diligence. But superficial critiques about appearance, popularity, or social ranking? That’s cafeteria chatter. It evaporates by graduation.

The saddest part isn’t that I missed out on some teenage dates. It’s that I outsourced my courage. I let other people’s insecurity dictate my choices.

I’d tell that younger version of me to grow up a little faster. To understand that confidence isn’t built by conforming—it’s built by choosing. To take the nice girl to the football game. To sit at the table that makes you laugh instead of the one that makes you anxious. To stop measuring worth by applause.

And maybe most importantly, I’d tell him this:

The people whose opinions you’re afraid of right now? In thirty years, you won’t even remember half their names.

The girl you were too scared to ask out? You’ll remember her.

So go have some fun. Be kind. Be brave. And stop listening to the peanut gallery.

I’d tell today’s kids the same thing.

Copyright © 2026 Doug DeBolt.

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Quick Thought – Monday, February 23, 2026: Use It or Lose It

Read

Matthew 21:33-46

“Therefore I tell you, the kingdom of God will be taken away from you and given to a people producing its fruits.”
Matthew 21:43

Reflect

Gift boxesToday’s passage is one of the more tragic parables that Jesus taught because it directly foretells his own death. In the story, the master’s servants are continually mistreated by the tenants, until one day he sends his son to get the business moving. Stupidly, they think that if they kill the son, they’ll get his inheritance for themselves, and so they murder him. And as a result, the master destroys the tenants and finds someone else who will care for his vineyard.

While this scripture primarily pertains to God spreading the Gospel beyond the Jews to the Gentiles, it also has a very real application in our everyday lives. The Lord has given each of us some gifts in our lives. Your calling in life is a gift. Whatever talents you have are gifts from Him. And the way He has called you to further His kingdom is a gift as well.

Each of us is responsible for using these gifts, and for caring for and nurturing them, and ultimately using them. If you don’t use your gifts, and if you don’t respond to His call for your life, God’s will still accomplish His will – through someone else. None of us will ultimately be an obstacle to what the Lord wants to do. He will simply find someone else to do what He called us to.

Today, if you’re not sure about what the Lord has called you to do – in any area of your life – ask Him to reveal His plans for you. Ask Him to give you the desire and the courage to step out each day and use all of your gifts to His greater glory.

Reflection copyright © 2026 Doug DeBolt.

Scripture quotations are from The Holy Bible, English Standard Version® (ESV®), copyright © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

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The Sunday Pour: Small Batch

Not mass-produced, but carefully chosen and nurtured. Our closest relationships are small-batch, not large-scale.

There’s something about the phrase small batch that feels intentional. It suggests care. Attention. A steady hand rather than a conveyor belt.

But if we’re going to build a metaphor on it, we ought to understand what it actually means.

In bourbon, small batch isn’t just marketing poetry. It’s a blending decision. A distillery selects a specific number of barrels — maybe a few dozen, maybe a few hundred — and mingles them together to achieve a desired profile. The key word is specific. The number isn’t infinite. It isn’t accidental. It’s deliberate.

That’s what separates it from mass production. When thousands of barrels are blended together, the law of averages does much of the work. Variations smooth out. Rough edges are diluted. Consistency becomes almost automatic because volume itself absorbs the extremes.

Small batch doesn’t have that luxury.

When you’re blending forty barrels instead of four thousand, every one of them matters. One barrel that leans heavy into tannin can tilt the entire profile. Another that bursts with caramel and honey can brighten the whole mix. The master distiller has to taste carefully, consider thoughtfully, and adjust with intention. There is no hiding behind scale. There is only attention.

That’s where the metaphor begins to hold.

Single barrel, of course, is something else entirely. One barrel. No blending. No safety net. There’s a rare beauty in that kind of individuality. You get every nuance, every eccentricity, every bold note exactly as it developed. Sometimes that produces something unforgettable. Other times, it can feel a bit sharp or unbalanced. A single barrel can be stunning, but it carries all its edges without help.

Most of us don’t build our lives around single-barrel experiences. We need something steadier than that.

The most important relationships in my life are not mass-produced. They are not sprawling networks of interchangeable connections. They are small batch. Daryl. Lizzi. Sully. Scott. It isn’t a long list, but it’s a strong one. Each brings something distinct to the blend — shared history, laughter that only works because of years invested, loyalty forged through hard seasons, joy that has been tested and proven. Over time, those elements mingle and deepen. The result isn’t flashy, but it’s rich. It’s balanced. It endures.

In bourbon, blending aims for consistency so that every bottle tastes like the last. In relationships, the goal isn’t sameness but harmony. Consistency in bourbon is predictability. Consistency in relationships is faithfulness. The kind that shows up again and again. The kind that absorbs the occasional sharp note and smooths it out over time.

Mass production relies on volume to hide imperfections. Small batch relies on care to shape character.

You don’t industrialize trust. You don’t warehouse intimacy. You don’t automate love. These things require attention. They require tasting and adjusting when something feels off, and they require the humility to admit when the blend needs work.

Even the way God seems to operate reflects this. He builds covenant, not crowds. He gathers disciples, not demographics. Jesus ministered to multitudes, but He invested deeply in twelve, and even within that twelve, there were three who drew closer still. There is something profoundly small-batch about that approach.

Maybe the invitation this week is not to expand the barrel count but to tend the blend. Instead of chasing scale, we might focus on stewardship. Instead of measuring success by how many people we know, we might measure it by how well we care for the few entrusted to us.

The richest pours aren’t the ones that flood the shelves. They’re the ones that were chosen carefully, blended thoughtfully, and nurtured patiently.

So are the richest lives.

Copyright © 2026 Doug DeBolt.

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What Bores Me (Besides This Question)

Daily writing prompt
What bores you?

What bores me?

This question.

There. Post over. See you tomorrow.

But no — apparently we’re going to unpack this like it’s a suitcase at airport security. “Sir, we’re going to need you to elaborate on your boredom.” Fine. Let’s do this.

What bores me?

Vague questions bore me. Questions that feel like they were generated by a committee of beige office furniture. Questions that sound like they were written by someone who thought, “Let’s spark creativity!” and then immediately fell asleep on their keyboard.

“What bores you?” is the oatmeal of prompts. No toppings. No brown sugar. Just lukewarm paste sitting in a bowl of obligation.

I don’t get bored easily when something matters. Give me a great story. A heated debate about whether 100 proof is the true sweet spot of bourbon. A Friday night football game with a controversial pass interference call. A classroom full of 9th graders discovering that Shakespeare is basically just dramatic teenagers with better vocabulary. I’m in.

But ask me what bores me and suddenly my brain turns into an old Windows computer trying to load Internet Explorer.

Thinking… thinking… not responding.

Part of it is that boredom is situational. I can sit quietly in an empty classroom after school — my favorite quiet time of day — and be perfectly content. Silence doesn’t bore me. Repetition without purpose bores me. Meetings that could have been emails bore me. Emails that could have been two sentences bore me even more.

Small talk that never graduates into real talk? Boring.

Endless PowerPoints with bullet points reading themselves aloud? Boring.

People who ask “How are you?” but don’t actually want the answer? Boring.

But here’s the twist: sometimes boredom is just misdirected energy. My brain is rarely idle. It’s plotting the next blog post, next book idea, next classroom activity, next bracket matchup. It’s asking, “What if Santa Claus were actually running an international intelligence network?” or “What if two boys drowned in a West Texas cave and nobody ever told the whole story?” That’s not boredom. That’s gasoline.

Which is why this question feels like someone handed me a teaspoon and asked me to measure the ocean.

If I’m honest, what truly bores me isn’t a specific activity. It’s the absence of curiosity. It’s when people stop asking “Why?” and settle for “Meh.” It’s when creativity gets replaced by autopilot.

Give me passion. Give me absurdity. Give me something that makes me argue, laugh, taste, teach, or write. But don’t hand me a question so bland that it needs seasoning just to survive.

So what bores me?

Questions like this. And yet — here I am, 600 words later, still talking about it. Which means maybe the real answer is this:

Boredom doesn’t stand a chance if I decide to fight back.

Now, tomorrow’s question better be better.

Copyright © 2026 Doug DeBolt.

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Quick Thought – Sunday, February 22, 2026 (First Sunday in Lent): Back Up Your Words

Read

Matthew 21:28-32

“Which of the two did the will of his father?” They said, “The first.” Jesus said to them, “Truly, I say to you, the tax collectors and the prostitutes go into the kingdom of God before you.
Matthew 21:31

Reflect

Punch in the jawOne of the hardest lessons I ever tried to teach my daughter was, “actions speak louder than words.” You can tell me anything you want to tell me, but unless you back those words up with actions, your words don’t carry a lot of meaning.

I used to tell her this story: Imagine that a kid in school came up to you every day and said, “I really like you! You’re my best friend in the world.” And then they hauled off and punched you in the jaw. Every day it was the same thing – “I like you,” and “Wham!” How much would their words mean to you if they were always followed by a punch to the jaw?

On the other hand, imagine someone who never told you they liked you, but every day found a way to do something nice to you. Which of those two people would you actually count as a friend?

That’s the same basic principle at work in today’s scripture. One son says, “Dad, I’m there for you,” but never showed up for work. Meanwhile, the other son said “I’m not coming,” but then changed his mind and showed up. Clearly, in that case, the son who did the work was the one who made his father happy. His actions spoke volumes more than his words.

You can make all of the promises you want to make – to your friends, to your family, to God. But unless you back those promises up with actions, your words will ultimately be empty. And perhaps even worse than that, people will learn that they can’t count on what you say.

Today, think about all of the things that you want to do, both today and in the future. Pray that the Lord will help you follow through on the things you’ve committed to, and also that He will help you to always put actions to your words.

Reflection copyright © 2026 Doug DeBolt.

Scripture quotations are from The Holy Bible, English Standard Version® (ESV®), copyright © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

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Hydration Depends on the Mood (and the Meeting)

Daily writing prompt
What is your favorite drink?

Oh, we’re doing this?

“What’s your favorite drink?”

That’s like asking, “What’s your favorite word?” or “What’s your favorite oxygen molecule?” Context matters, people.

Honestly, my favorite drink depends entirely on what kind of version of me you’re dealing with.

If I’m legitimately thirsty—like Florida-in-August, Duval-County-dismissal-duty thirsty—the answer is Gatorade Zero Glacier Cherry. Which, for the record, is white. White. Glacier Cherry.

Why is it white? I don’t know. Why are raspberries blue? Why is “Cherry Ice” sometimes purple? At this point, I’ve just accepted that the fruit color wheel is more of a suggestion than a rule. If we can have blue raspberries, we can absolutely have white cherries. I’m not here to police pigment.

Now, classroom Doug? That’s a different animal entirely.

Enter: the Giganto Wawa Cup.

This is less of a beverage container and more of a hydration strategy. Some days I go full mad scientist and mix Mello Yello Zero flavors like I’m inventing a margarita-inspired soft drink for people who still have fourth period to teach. Other days I let the soda fountain professionals handle it. Yesterday’s selection? Coca-Cola Zero Sugar Cherry Float. Not my invention. I don’t need that kind of pressure in my life. I just consume the genius of others.

My mother—God bless her practical soul—would prefer my favorite drink be water. Simple. Clean. Responsible. Hydrating.

She would also like me to floss more and get eight hours of sleep.

We can’t all live up to our potential.

Now… if I’m sitting at my desk—really sitting at my desk—the answer gets complicated in the best way possible.

Bourbon.

But even that is unfairly broad. That’s like asking which child is your favorite, except the children are 64 bottles deep into a Best-of-the-Shelf bracket challenge and staring at you from behind Glencairn glasses. Some are high-proof fire breathers. Some are caramel-and-vanilla charmers. Some were finished in wine casks and act like they studied abroad.

So what’s my favorite?

Depends on the day. Depends on the mood. Depends on whether I’m writing a Sunday reflection or recovering from a faculty meeting that could have been an email.

Ultimately, though, the honest answer is this:

My favorite drink is whatever fits the moment.

  • Sweaty and overheated? Glacier Cherry (white, because sure).
  • Teaching and caffeinated? Some Frankenstein Zero Sugar creation from Wawa.
  • Reflective and relaxed? Something amber, neat, in a Glencairn.
  • Annoyed by generic blog prompts at 7:00 a.m.? Coke Zero Cherry Float.

Right now? It’s too early for the brown liquor. Even I have standards.

So I think I’ll finish this, grab another Coke Zero Float, and toast to the fact that at least the drink choices are more interesting than the question.

Cheers—to context.

Copyright © 2026 Doug DeBolt.

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Quick Thought – Saturday, February 21, 2026: What’s Most Precious?

Read

Genesis 22

He said, “Take your son, your only son Isaac, whom you love, and go to the land of Moriah, and offer him there as a burnt offering on one of the mountains of which I shall tell you.”
Genesis 22:2

Reflect

Skateboarder in actionJim had only wanted one thing for as long as he could remember – a brand new Element skateboard. He had even saved to help his parents pay the $150 for a tricked-out board. On his birthday, he finally got his wish. His parents didn’t even use his money – they surprised him and sprung for the entire thing.

But one month later, Jim’s heart was broken when his parents came to him and told him they needed him to give up the board. “We won’t make you give it up,” they told Jim. “But we could really use the money.”

A ton of thoughts raced through Jim’s mind.

“Why give it to me at all if you’re just going to take it away?”

“How much will the money from my board help?”

“You know how much this board means to me. Can’t you find something else that doesn’t mean so much?”

After a day filled with these and other thoughts, Jim sighed deeply. He picked up his board and went to his parents. “Here,” Jim said. “You can have the board. I’ll just keep saving up, and we can get it again someday.”

His parents smiled, and tears filled their eyes. “We already found another way to get the money, Jim,” his Dad said. “But it means so much to know that you would give up the thing that means the most to you.”

Of course, this is a simplification of the story of Abraham and Isaac. Abraham and Sarah had waited literally 100 years to have a child. Isaac was something that meant more to them than anything else in the world. So when God asked Abraham to sacrifice Isaac to him on a mountaintop altar, it had to be the most gut-wrenching decision Abraham ever had to make. But, since Abraham trusted God, and God asked him to do it, Abraham took Isaac to the top of the mountain to sacrifice him to the Lord.

Of course, we know that God spared Isaac’s life and provided an alternate sacrifice. But Abraham’s willingness to put everything he had on the line for the Lord proved that God could trust him with anything. Plus, He could also use Abraham as the foundation for a special people, set apart for Him.

What’s your Isaac? What is the one thing that would be the hardest for you to give up, even if God asked you to do it? If there’s anything that you value more than the Lord, it will have the potential of getting in between you and Him. For me, it’s my family – my precious wife, daughter and grandchildren. But we all have something precious that is dear to our hearts. And if we’re to truly grow as close as possible to God, we have to be willing to put Him ahead all of that.

Today, pray that the Lord will give you the strength to begin putting Him ahead of anything else in your life. You may never have to give up the precious things, but your willingness to do that will open up the possibilities for you to reach new levels in your walk with Him.

Reflection copyright © 2026 Doug DeBolt.

Scripture quotations are from The Holy Bible, English Standard Version® (ESV®), copyright © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

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The People Across the Table

Daily writing prompt
Who are your favorite people to be around?

Who are my favorite people to be around? The same ones I wrote about earlier this week. My wife. My daughter. My best friend, Scott.

I don’t have a long list, but I have a good list. Quality, not quantity.

I’ve never been the guy who needs a crowd. I can enjoy a crowd. I can work a room when I need to. I can teach 25 ninth graders at 8:30 in the morning and somehow survive it. But when the day is done — when the noise settles and the pace slows — the people I want near me are the ones who know me without explanation.

My wife is at the top of that list. There is no one whose presence steadies me the way she does. We can talk for hours, or we can sit quietly in the same room and not feel the need to fill the space. There’s something sacred about being fully known and still fully welcomed. We’ve walked through hard seasons and beautiful ones, and she is still the person I most want to tell things to first.

Then there’s my daughter.

She has always had a way of surprising me — with her creativity, her generosity, her heart. Being around her feels like watching a story I started decades ago continue in ways I never could have predicted. And now, when I’m with her, I’m also with Sully.

That little boy has rearranged the furniture of my heart.

There’s something about a grandson that hits differently. When he laughs, it feels like history echoing forward. When he runs toward me, arms up, it’s as if time folds in on itself — I see my daughter at two years old, and I see the future at the same time. I didn’t know that stage of life would feel this rich. I’m grateful I get to experience it.

And then there’s Scott.

If you’re fortunate enough to have one friend who has walked beside you for decades — who has seen the wins, the mistakes, the pivots, the reinventions — you understand. We can sit across a table with a couple of Glencairns and talk about bourbon, theology, politics, family, or nothing at all. The pour is almost secondary. It’s the presence that matters.

The common thread?

With each of them, I don’t perform. I don’t edit. I don’t manage perceptions. I just am.

That’s rare in this world.

So no, I don’t have a massive list of favorite people. I don’t need one. I have a small circle that feels like home.

And if I’m honest, that’s more than enough.

Copyright © 2026 Doug DeBolt.

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Quick Thought – Friday, February 20, 2026: Shine Your Light

Read

Matthew 5:13-16

“In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven.”
Matthew 5:16

Reflect

Candle in the darknessHow far away do you think you could see a candle at night?

One mile? Two? Five? Ten?

The truth is, that on a flat surface, in pitch darkness you could see the flickering of a single candle as far away as 30 miles. That’s an amazing distance, but it shows that light truly does defeat darkness.

Jesus was saying the same thing in the Sermon on the Mount. He told His followers that lights placed in full view of others will help illuminate the darkness. And He encouraged us to shine a light in our lives to give honor and glory to God.

You might ask what that light looks like. It’s a good attitude, even when things are going poorly. It’s doing good deeds for others, but not taking the credit yourself. It’s speaking in good and decent language, without resorting to coarse and rude words. It’s sharing your testimony of what the Lord has done in your life when you have the opportunity to do so.

Your entire life can be a light to others, but only if you live it in a way that honors God. Even without preaching the Gospel, you can draw others to Him simply by allowing His light and life to flow through you.

Today, pray about the light the Lord wants you to shine. Ask Him to help you continually shine His light in your life, and pray for opportunities to bring His light into dark places.

Reflection copyright © 2023 Doug DeBolt.

Scripture quotations are from The Holy Bible, English Standard Version® (ESV®), copyright © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

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The Bourbon Cheapskate, Vol. 29: Wolcott Bonded: Worth the Gamble?

I’ve looked at Wolcott Bottled-in-Bond more than once at Total Wine & More, and every time I put it back on the shelf.

Spirits Direct bottles can be hit or miss. Add to that the fact that it’s another product from Barton 1792 Distillery, and I’ll admit I’ve been a little cautious. I’m still watching the situation with Early Times Bottled-in-Bond, so I wasn’t in a hurry to jump in.

But at $35, curiosity finally won.

I decided to taste it next to its higher-proof sibling, Wolcott Rickhouse Reserve. I reviewed the Rickhouse Reserve blind back in November, and apparently it made an impression — I’m down to about a quarter of the bottle.

Color

Both pour a similar mid-amber. Nothing especially dark or striking. As always, color doesn’t determine much for me, but this one sits on the lighter end of what I typically see.

Nose

The difference shows up quickly.

The Rickhouse Reserve opens with vanilla, citrus, and light oak. It’s bright and inviting.

The Bottled-in-Bond carries some of those same notes, but the dominant aroma is dusty peanuts — almost like sitting down at a table at Texas Roadhouse and cracking shells before the meal arrives. Not unpleasant, just more rustic.

Palate

The Rickhouse Reserve brings cinnamon, orange zest, vanilla, brown sugar, and oak in a well-balanced combination. It drinks below its proof and carries good complexity.

The Bonded version overlaps in flavor but simplifies the experience. Cinnamon leads, followed by sweet peanut butter and vanilla. The flavors are nice, but there’s less depth and less development across the sip.

Finish

The Rickhouse Reserve has a borderline creamy mouthfeel, and the sugar-and-spice finish lingers. It hangs on in a way that makes you want another sip.

The Bottled-in-Bond is noticeably thinner. Not watery — just less substantial. The finish shows similar sweet and spice notes but fades much more quickly.

Final Thoughts

The Rickhouse Reserve has earned its spot on my shelf. It ranks highly in my Top 64 and will soon face serious competition in the Best-of-the-Shelf Challenge.

As for the Bonded — which is the reason for this post — I’m not blown away, but I’m not disappointed either. Out of 22 bottled-in-bond bourbons on my shelf, it comes in at No. 10. When I looked closer, the nine above it are all more expensive, many by a wide margin.

At $35, this is a fair bottle. It’s solid. It’s honest. It performs where it should.

And it does make me wonder whether, after the 64-bottle challenge wraps up, I need a separate tournament for my 100-proofers and bottled-in-bonds.

For now, though, I wouldn’t shy away from Wolcott. It’s worth having. And it’s certainly worth drinking.

Copyright © 2026 Doug DeBolt.
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